Every now and then its good to evaluate ones self and consider good qualities, and bad qualities. Well at least I think so, I try to do this a few times a year. The question is what are good qualities about me, and what are not so good qualities about me? Then of the not so good ones, what ones are worth working on, and what ones are best left alone until a later point in time? Basically the flaws that are worth working on are the ones that hurt other people obviously, and the ones that bother me the most. Oh and whatever convictions the holy spirit throws my way, those are important too :). I won't get into my good qualities, but some of my bad qualities are random anger bursts (these most people never see but still are not good), impatience towards certain topics/certain people, and the fact I never communicate myself clearly.
So often people think I'm trying to argue with them when I'm simply trying to understand. It happens often enough that people think I like to argue, when the reality is whenever I have an actual argument I spend a couple of days kinda despairing over it. Honestly most of the time, if I'm wrong I just like to know why and people never seem to understand that about me. This comes from the fact I communicate and think differently than most people or so I think anyway.
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Thursday, November 20, 2008
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